2. I will not try to manipulate my Top. I will not push to make a scene go the way I think it should. In other words, I will not Top from the bottom.

3. I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not comfortable with and expanding my limits. I will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.

4. I will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Top, and will do my best to fulfill his or her wishes and desires.

5. I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused. I know that submissive does not equal doormat.

6. I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives. I will share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from where I have been. I will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.

7. I will be responsive to my Top. I will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that I may assist him or her in their responsibilities as my authority. I know that Dominants are not telepathic, and will not expect my Top to know thoughts or feelings which I do not share.

8. I will accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone bad. I will not place the total blame on my Top when it is not warranted simply because he or she is the Dominant. I realize that things may not work out as they should at times and will do my best to put it behind me and move on.

9. I will give my gift of submission only to those that can responsibly accept and desire to receive. I will not place anyone in the position of Topping me non-consensually, nor will I give my respect to someone that has not earned it.

10. I know that D/s is not a contest and will never think myself a "better" submissive because I choose to submit on a different level than another. I will not be boastful of the experiences I have had as a bottom.

11. I will be obedient to my Top even if I disagree with what is being requested. I realize that he or she has my best interest at heart, and often knows better than I what is needed in a particular situation.

12. I know that my actions reflect upon my Top, and will do my best to help others see him or her in a positive way. I will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Dominant.

13. Above all I will wear my title of submissive with honor. I will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub-human. I will take pride in who and what I am and will never show myself in a negative way.